Lawful and neutral gods should respect any conducts you currently have when giving you stuff:

• If you have been illiterate, they will not give you a spellbook.
• If you have been weaponless, they will not give you artifact weapons (maybe could give a +1 intrinsic damage bonus instead).
• If you have been pacifist, they may send tame minions.

Meanwhile, chaotic gods will ignore these rules and give you whatever.